Choosing a path meant having to miss out on others. She had a whole life to live, and she was always thinking that, in the future, she might regret the choices she made now. “I’m afraid of committing myself, ” she thought to herself. She wanted to follow all possible paths and so ended up following none. Even in that most important area of her life, love, she had failed to commit herself. After her first romantic disappointment, she had never again given herself entirely. She feared pan, loss, and separation. These things were inevitable on the path to love, and the only way of avoiding them was by deciding not to take that path at all. In order not to suffer, you had to renounce love. It was like putting out your own eyes not to see the bad things in life. .Paulo Coelho
About This Quote
In a lot of ways, life seems to be a test. We have to prove to the world that we are worthy by showing our commitment and valuing things that mean something to us. The path to finding true love is a difficult one, but if you want to stay true to yourself then you have to take that path. You have to love yourself before you can learn how to love someone else.
In this quote, the speaker is talking about her fear of giving herself completely because she knows that it will cause pain, disappointment and eventually hurt. She suggests that those who choose not to commit themselves will miss out on a big part of life by not taking the path towards true love.
Source: Brida
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